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Unfortunately, I cannot think of one instance where he comforted me. I can come home from work and tell him that one of my co-workers was run over by a bus and killed, and his response would be "Oh Nothing, nada!

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I have given up and either don't share things with him or don't expect anything when I talk to him about. He is not my main source of emotional comfort or support.

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